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Early Mid-Life Crisis

Categories: Ana Maria Caballero, ZiR


poetry volkswagenThere is an undocumented age crisis that occurs in the early thirties. Indeed, the onset of this decade might mark the actual “coming of age.” Eighteen is still shrouded by the incredulous, protective shield of childhood, as is any age before twenty nine. But thirty-three is different. It is lucid and stunned and dismayed at the same time.

I held this notion as an inkling until reading the poem below by German poet Hans Magnus Enzensberger, which confirmed it as poetic fact. Mr. Enzensberger, born in 1929, witnessed the Third Reich’s reign and legacy on his nation. So, he knows of dismay. He also knows of changing political views that are held in a personal, perhaps lighter way.

The character in his poem “At Thirty Three” seems extracted from Nobel Laureate Doris Lessing’s The Golden NotebookThe professor lover, the Hesse, the men who take no liberties, the batik dresses, the hidden preoccupation with beauty. And, of course the loosely held Trotsky.

Enzensberger’s other work maintains his cynic, impassive view. Jacket2 Magazine published a few that can be read here.  The Poetry Foundation also has a few available here.

 

At Thirty Three

It was all so different from what she’d expected
Always those rusting Volkswagens.
At one time she’d almost married a baker.
First he read Hesse, then Handke.
Now often she does crosswords in bed.
With her, men take no liberties.
For years she was a Trotskyist, but in her own way.
She’s never handled a ration card.
When she thinks of Kampuchea she feels quite sick.
Her last lover, the professor, always wanted her to beat him.
Greenish batik dresses, always too wide for her.
Greenflies on her Sparmannia.
Really she wanted to paint, or emigrate.
Her thesis, Class Struggles in Ulm 1500
to 1512 and References to them in Folksong:
Grants, beginnings and a suitcase full of notes.
Sometimes her grandmother sends her money.
Tentative dances in her bathroom, little grimaces,
cucumber juice for hours in front of the mirror.
She says, whatever happens I shan’t starve.
When she weeps she looks like nineteen.

 

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—Ana Maria Caballero, Zeteo Contributing Writer

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2 Comments to “Early Mid-Life Crisis”

  1. William Eaton says:

    Long ago I heard an Episcopal minister propose that the challenge of our thirties is that, for the first time in our lives, we can see to the end. We have thoughts such as “only 50 more years”, or this may be the last or only time I ever come to this beautiful place. In my experience, this sort of quantitative sense of mortality is peculiar to our thirties; it fades with time. But it is certainly a challenge when it first hits. At 15, my son, of course, is going to live forever.

  2. Steve Webb says:

    The early thirties are also the years when many people first become aware that they actually have a life behind them. It’s as they approach the mid-point between the life that was and the life that may be, that their past seems quite full and they begin to recollect in earnest. They start to wonder, Can a coherent narrative be extended out from all that I have so far lived? Not coincidentally, it’s often also the time when reflective types make their first experiments in autobiography. That was true of me, anyway.

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